For as long as I can remember, I’ve been in church. I remember my mom waking me up a way too early for a weekend, dressing me in a frilly dress with uncomfortable stockings and slippery, glossy heels. Then she and my father would take us to a place where the music was a little […]
Jesus & Therapy
I remember the first time I ever saw a therapist. It was the year 2010, and one of the ladies I worked with at the time was talking about going to counseling weekly. She put it plainly like this, “I go see a complete stranger once a week and vent for like an hour just […]
Guess Who’s Back?
I know.. I know. It’s been a minute. Shoot when was the last blog I wrote?? In MARCH? Whew Chile. I’ve been slipping. I know this. Ya’ll wanna know why I’ve been gone? Like the REAL reason? This is a space for honesty and transparency right? Right?? Okay.. I’mma keep it ALL the way real. […]
If Not Now, When?!
“The two most powerful warriors are patience and time.” Leo Tolstoy Time has been my best friend and also my worst enemy. I can see how time is beneficial. You want time to learn a new hobby or interest, to get over a heartbreak or even to prolong our expected expiration date at the end of […]
7 years ago today, I was lying in a hospital bed in a haze. My parents were on either side of me after having to talk to doctors and nurses about possible stomach pumps and blood test, trying to make sure I hadn’t done my body permanent damage. Luckily for me, physically I was fine. […]
Why I Stayed
“Why did you stay after he cheated?” Uh. Wow. A question I had never been asked so directly before. I had to stop and think for a second before I answered. Even still, I don’t believe I answered it fully. So.. I’ll answer it here. I never believed I was a woman that would […]
Time Machines & Things
A few weekends ago, it was like I was stuck in a time machine and I couldn’t bring myself to come to present day. The year I was stuck in mostly was 2014. It was a year that started with a lot of loss. I first lost my guy best friend that had been a […]
Let God, Be God Bro.
Today I’m having one of those episodes, where I’m realizing the call on my life and how I said yes… But now I’m thinking maybe I should’ve just hung up the phone. Yep. I said it. I SHOULDA HUNG UP ON JESUS! “Who dis? Jesus? You looking for Tiffany? Oh, you got the wrong number […]
366 days ago I was saved, sanctified, Holy Ghost filled, fire baptized, in church every Sunday and Thursday, in my word, serving in several ministries, meeting with my pastor several times a month for discipleship, and guess what? I. Had. Sex. Yep. That’s right. All that accountability. God in my ear. Knowing Jesus is watching […]
New Page, Who Dis?
I talk to God about everything. Whether big or small, we discuss it. I’ll never forget one random 6AM morning a few months ago, He and I were talking about social media. At the time, my Instagram had been deactivated for several months and I honestly didn’t know what to do about the page. I […]